The Harms of Mixing with Young Boys

1.Hadrat Hakim Saheb R.A. used to say that if a person is involved in an illicit affair there is a possibility of it becoming Halaal as it is possible for the two to get married. However if a person is involved with a young boy then this relationship can never ever become Halaal.

2. Generally boys that have reached the age of fifteen or sixteen are at the peak of their beauty and men also become inclined to these beardless young boys. If one inclines towards them then they should be treated as women (i.e. observe total Purdah from them as one observes Purdah from a strange woman).

3. Many young students in institutes also complain of being attracted to fellow students, thus such students also have to observe Purdah from those fellow students whom they are attracted to.

4. Homosexuality is the cause of HIV and Aids. Many governments in the world are spending millions trying to combat HIV and Aids yet at the very same time they are legalising gay/same sex marriages which is the root to the problem.

5. Hadrat Thanwi R.A says that generally a man gets attracted to a young boy that is beardless. However, sometimes one also gets attracted to those young boys that have little beards. The moment one becomes attracted to such a young boy then also observance of Purda becomes necessary.

6. Looking at young boys with desire is worse than looking at women with desire.

7. Hadrat Hakim Saheb R.A. never used to allow anyone to be alone with young boys. Many Christian priests in their churches and monasteries get involved with young boys even though it supposed to be totally against their religion. Due to such evil, Hadrat Hakim Saheb R.A. totally prohibited the teachers of Darul Ulooms from taking service from students such as allowing young boys to massage in seclusion etc.

8. Hadrat Sheikh R.A has written that how many people take young boys in Jamaat and then  get involved with them in Haraam relationships, therefore Hadrat R.A had written to the Markaz and warned them of these dangers.

9. Many teachers take their students camping etc. over the weekends thus we should be careful in this regard as well.